Happy New Year’s Eve!  Have you worked out what you want for 2019? 

Most people set some goals at the start of a New Year.  It’s a natural time to readdress what it is you want in life.

However, what happens when you start to make the change and then, for whatever reason, it is not working out? What is next?

Being honest about the situation is usually the best place to start, and being honest with yourself is where you begin.

Ask yourself the questions – why did you start this journey in the first place?  Why did you consider it important?  Is it important to you, or is it important to someone else?

Motivation and excitement start the fresh outlook, however routine and commitment continues the feeling onwards.  If after all these changes, the new goal isn’t connecting with you and you’ve been honest with yourself why then perhaps it is time to stop.

There is no such thing as a bad experience in my book.  Life lessons come around to show us something that we need to know about, however tough. 

Embrace the lesson, find your forgiveness and move on.